jammy time

i saw regina george wearing army pants and flip flops, so i bought army pants and flip flops….

last week at the st. lucia concert at city winery, i saw a chic pea wearing a dark printed pajama top. she easily stood out against a sea of black and had paired it simply half tucked with a ponytail, skinny jeans and some western style booties…it was all just working. while her bag and booties were very trendy, the black made them feel accessible enough that even i could pull the look off. so of course i did what one does in the age of mobile mania– i ordered most of her outfit promptly in the cab ride home. below are the three winners from my quest for a pajama top, plus other less expensive options by express, zara and nordstrom rack.

get her whole look below…

1– silk button-up top, j.crew

2– juliet silk pajama top, cinq a sept

3– liana silk pajama blouse, l’agence

4– “ori” satin lipstick, tom ford

5– huxley booties, topshop

6– kendall distressed skinny jeans, grlfrnd

7– mini johnny bag, danse lente

8– compass ring, retrouvai

9– bee pinky ring, mejuri

black, white & (no) red all over

valentine’s has never been my favorite holiday, but I am all about any excuse to be doted on (or more realistically, to treat yo’ self). since I’m more of a neutral gal over red or pink, I rounded up a few pretties I’d love to receive as gifts. all the perfect little luxuries– for valentines, galentines, an anniversary, or rainy day pick me up.

 1- silk teddy
2- cleansing balm
3- acrylic bangles
4- pleated camisole
5- milk bath soak
6- nyt bestseller
7- horse bit loafers
8- heart earrings
9- sleep mask
10- beauty powder

 happy lovas day CPs <3 <3

the shape of water

YALL. has everyone seen the shape of water? i watched it on a plane home from SF last night and cannot get over it– the depth of character development, the unusual story line, the gorgeous cinematography, the attention to each and every tiny detail weaving in and out throughout the film…. talk about a work of art.

while obviously this film was very hyped at the oscars, i had put off seeing it because a) pan’s labyrinth scared the ever living s&*t out of me, which was the last big film by this director, and b) i have an extremely hard time sitting still for an entire movie, so i figured i needed to watch it at a time when i was feeling ready to focus, in order give it a fair chance. maybe it was being trapped on an airplane, but i was completely captivated. and don’t get me started on the ending– i won’t give away any spoilers, but text or email me to please discuss, because i am OVERWHELMED (can you ever just be “whelmed”?) and need someone to talk to about it. so there’s that.

the second mind blowing discovery of the day? lychee ice cream. THANK YOU JET BLUE. i have found a new non-sartorial obsession in this stuff. it’s light, creamy, not too sweet and completely worth the lactose-induced belly ache. do any readers know where i can procure such a delicacy at sea level?

in homage to my new favorite feature film, and in the effort of keeping this a fashion blog, a few items worthy of a modern day mermaid…

 

listed from top to bottom:

headwrap,  slip dresscrochet top,  sheer skirt,  capri perfumeruffled top,

  sunglassestrousersclutch,  fish earrings,  surf sprayslides (if mermaids had feet),

one piece swimsuit, pearl bracelet,  striped skirtcolor block dress,

  mixed stone earrings,  raffia tote bag, wrap sandalsbikinilight blue fragrance,

  mother of pearl ringbone earrings

 

 

going au natural

today, ladies, let’s talk about the stinky stuff…

about two and a half years ago I embarked on a commitment to stop wearing aluminum-based deodorant. while it’s a highly debated topic (and I am not trying to tell anyone what to do, nor do i claim to be a medical/scientific expert), there is plenty of credible research suggesting a link between aluminum-based compounds and an elevated risk factor for the development of breast cancer. given that several amazing women in my family have all been subject to this terrible disease, i decided it was better to be proactive and eliminate these products as soon as possible. now that i get older, it’s becoming more and more obvious I should watch the chemicals in my beauty regimen more closely, given how much time and effort i spend knowing the ingredients in my food and trying to eat organically.

however, the road towards all natural beauty products can be a rocky one, especially for a product that plays as critical a role to everyday hygiene as deodorant. Until recently, it was hard to find any sort of substitute that was effective. thankfully the growing buzz around natural beauty has driven the creation of several new brands, with new products coming out almost weekly. I first struck out with Tom’s for men at Whole Foods, the only aluminum free option I could find, but today there are so many more choices! (for comparison, there was one natural option available at sephora just a year ago and now there are 20+). Despite the expanded selection, you still have to be careful since some are great while others have been flat out useless.

For this reason, I decided to review ten types I’ve guinea pigged over the years, for those of you who are new to the idea of going all natural, or for anyone not loving their current deodorant. trust me, it took a lot of trial and error and I am still tweaking, with no five star option to be found (also full disclaimer, occasionally i cheat with Secret before a big event or meeting because stress sweat is. not. cute.) also since this process is an extremely personal one and what works for one person might not for another, there is also a very extensive review by the nyt here with additional options. If you’ve tried any of these, feel free to leave your ratings in the comments below!

and a plea to my dear readers– if there are any good ones i’ve missed, pass along your recommendations! please and thank youuuu.

  • the everyday all star (4 stars)- while putting my top pick at the beginning of the list may prevent you from scrolling further, this schmidt’s natural ($8.99) is my current favorite and it comes in enough scents to appease even the pickiest of noses. versus some of the others, it does feel gritty gliding on, but i’ve never noticed this during the day. and most importantly, compared to others, it really works.

  • the necessary evil (3 stars)- while i do not love this one as an everyday option, hence why it only gets three stars (goes on a little too slick feeling so you never feel completely dry), the takesumi detox ($22) is a great option for beginners to jumpstart the process, because the active charcoal pulls old toxins out.

  • the friend favorite (3 1/2 stars)- one of my dear friends and lovely yogi teacher JJ recommended primal pit paste ($10.95) to me at a bachelorette last year. if it weren’t for my recent discovery of schmidt’s i would have reordered this bad boy because it worked well enough. but the other reason it got dinged? as you can sort of see in the photo, the twist up container arrives only 1/2 full, so i found myself burning through it quickly and needing another (this was the only natural deodorant i’ve ever actually managed to get to the bottom of).

  • the bargain basement (2 stars)- after reading on the man repeller this crystal clear ($2.99) was amazing bang for your buck, i was left disappointed and thought it wore off after a few hours. also i just couldn’t get over this early 90’s packaging ugliness hanging out in my cosmetic bag (potentially a marketing firm’s dream job RN??)

  • the old faithful (2 1/2 stars)- while at one point in time i would have given Tom’s of maine ($5.79) 3 stars because in a pinch it will do, the arrival of better products means this one has fallen by the wayside. i’ve been really disappointed with Tom’s ever since Colgate purchased them; the lack of innovation sort of demonstrates how Colgate is using it as a cash cow rather than really trying to improve their product offerings. bonus points to this one for coming in a rare ‘unscented’ option though.

  • the designer deodorant (3 stars)- while Sephora has many other more expensive (Tarte, Milk, etc.) upscale branded deodorants, other than the Taksumi detox, I haven’t really toyed around with a $20-30 option. however, lavanila ($14) is a new product with cute packaging and a plethora of sweet scents. i still think other options might work better, but given the cute packaging and value size it definitely deserves a solid score.

  • the base spray (2 stars)– while i do not think this eo deodorant spray ($6.99) is effective on its own, which is one reason why i gave it a low score, JJ also recommended this as a “primer” of sorts before putting on the primal pit paste or another natural stick deodorant. it’s sort of annoying to have to use two different deodorants, especially if you can’t get them to have matching scents (the OCD in me required using the lavender smell in both since it was the only one I was sure would coordinate, but i hate the smell of lavender), and i found that you have to wait 1-2 minutes of dry time in between applying. overall, while it probably did help a little, i found it to be too much work and sort of gave up. that said, i do keep it in my gym bag now for a quick pick me up if i have errands to run or grab dinner directly after i work out.

  • the new kids to try (rating pending)i have heard rave reviews about both native deodorant ($12) and soapwalla deodorant cream ($19) so these are my next two purchases and i will report back!